5 Signs of a Regulated Nervous System from Our Team of Therapists

Your nervous system is like your body's control center, constantly responding to stress, emotions, and your environment. When it’s dysregulated, you might feel anxious, overwhelmed, or stuck in survival mode. But when it’s regulated, you feel grounded, calm, and resilient.

So, how do you know if your nervous system is in balance? Here are five key signs of a regulated nervous system:

1. You Can Handle Stress Without Feeling Overwhelmed

✅ Life throws challenges at all of us, but if you can respond to stress instead of reacting impulsively, it’s a sign your nervous system is in balance. Instead of feeling stuck in fight-or-flight, you can process emotions and return to a calm state.

2. Your Breathing is Steady and Deep

✅ A regulated nervous system allows for slow, deep breathing instead of short, shallow breaths. If you notice yourself breathing effortlessly from your belly rather than your chest, your body is in a parasympathetic (rest-and-digest) state.

3. You Feel Safe and Connected in Relationships

✅ When your nervous system is regulated, you feel emotionally safe and comfortable connecting with others. You can maintain eye contact, listen attentively, and express yourself without fear of judgment or defensiveness.

4. Your Body Feels Relaxed, Not Tense

✅ Chronic stress can cause tight muscles, headaches, and digestive issues, but a regulated nervous system allows your body to rest and repair. If you notice loose shoulders, an unclenched jaw, and overall relaxation, your system is in a balanced state.

5. You Can Shift Between Activity and Rest with Ease

✅ A well-regulated nervous system allows you to focus and take action when needed—but also to rest and rechargewithout guilt or restlessness. If you can move between work and relaxation effortlessly, it’s a great sign of nervous system health.

How to Support Nervous System Regulation

If you’re struggling with stress, anxiety, or feeling stuck in survival mode, there are simple ways to bring your nervous system back into balance:
✨ Deep breathing exercises
✨ Grounding techniques (like walking barefoot or using weighted blankets)
✨ Gentle movement (yoga, stretching, or shaking)
✨ Co-regulation (connecting with safe, supportive people)

At Serene Mind Counseling in Tampa, we help clients understand and regulate their nervous systems to feel calmer, more resilient, and emotionally balanced. If you’re ready to explore techniques that work for you, we’re here to support you!

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Breathwork for Mental Health

Breathwork is now a commonly used modality in mental health counseling, therapy, and other healing practices. Popularized by its sister practices yoga and meditation, breathwork is a natural way to reduce anxiety, stress, depression, panic, and even grief. More and more individuals are giving daily breathwork practices a try before attempting to manage these symptoms with medication therapies.

What is breathwork?

Breathwork is not just simple breathing- breathwork is a focused, intentional breath that is repeated several times depending on the targeted goal. Although you are physically using your body while participating in breathwork, this is also a mental exercise.

How does breathwork improve emotional symptoms I may be experiencing?

Breathwork gently pushes you toward tapping into your parasympathetic nervous system, or the “rest and digest” function of the body. In our modern world, we are constantly on the go, stimulated, and on guard. Living in this state keeps us in “fight, flight, or freeze” mode, disconnecting from our bodies and focusing on survival. Living in a constant vigilant or hypervigilant state can create havoc on the body, leading to burnout. Breathwork brings us back to our bodies, helping us get in touch with what we are truly feeling, mentally, emotionally, and even physically.

How do I know if breathwork would be helpful for me?

Before participating in a breathwork session, talk to your primary care doctor. Certain breathwork practices are contraindicated for specific physical ailments such as COPD, individuals with pacemakers, or individuals who are being treated for serious cardiac diseases. The effects of breathwork on mental health have the green light from your doctor, connect with a breathwork practitioner to explore which types of breathwork may be a good fit for you.

Are you interested in exploring breathwork as a part of your therapy journey? We are here to help. We have therapists that are trained in breathwork practices that can incorporate breathwork into your talk therapy sessions. Email us at hello@serenemindpsych.com or give us a call at 813.321.8280 to set up an intake appointment to see if one of our therapists can aid you in your healing journey.